Insight-lings
Get AI-powered insights about your relationships based on your actual message history. Ask questions, understand patterns, and discover meaningful ways to connect.
How It Works
Once you've uploaded a chat conversation to Remember-lings, you can use Insight-lings to ask AI-powered questions about that relationship.
Simply select the conversation, identify which participant you are, choose the relationship type (romantic partner, family member, close friend, or acquaintance), and start asking questions.
The AI analyzes your actual message history to provide personalized insights—from understanding communication patterns to brainstorming thoughtful gestures.
Important: All responses are for informational purposes only and are not a substitute for professional advice. Insights are based on patterns in your messages and should not be used to predict future outcomes.
Just to get your brain working on what you could ask
These are just beginning ideas—the possibilities are endless when you're using your actual conversations to ask questions.
🟡 Lighthearted & Fun
Low-stakes, curiosity-driven questions that feel safe and playful.
- •If I wanted to make this person smile with something small, what would work best?
- •What kinds of humor or jokes do we share most?
- •What are some inside jokes or shared references that show up a lot?
🟢 Highlights of the Relationship
Grounded in appreciation, memory, and strengths.
- •What patterns show up in our happiest or strongest moments together?
- •What do I seem to value most about this person, based on what I say?
- •What does this person seem to appreciate most about me?
🔵 Communication Patterns (Strengths and Friction)
Balanced, supportive insight — never alarmist or judgmental.
- •What communication patterns work well between us?
- •When we disagree, what usually helps things go better?
- •What topics tend to cause tension or misunderstandings?
These insights are meant to encourage reflection, not predict outcomes.
🟣 Brainstorm Ideas With Me
Creative, collaborative, and future-focused — this is the "ChatGPT magic" zone.
- •Brainstorm meaningful gift ideas for this person — and things I should probably avoid.
- •Help me plan a thoughtful message or note in my own voice.
- •What are some low-pressure ways I could show more support right now?
Ready to Get Started?
Upload a chat conversation and start getting insights about your relationships.